This wisdom is a profound piece of advice from Imam Ali (peace be upon him) given to Ash'ath ibn Qays during his time of mourning for his son. The historical context suggests that Ash'ath was deeply saddened by the loss of his child, a natural and human reaction to such a tragedy. Imam Ali (a.s.) emphasizes the importance of patience and acceptance of divine will in the face of personal loss.

Imam Ali (a.s.) begins by acknowledging Ash'ath's sorrow, stating that it is rightful for him to feel grief due to the blood ties. However, he urges him to practice patience, reminding him that every calamity has a reward from Allah. This highlights a key theme in Islamic thought: that patience (Sabr) in times of hardship is not only virtuous but is also rewarded by Allah.

The Imam further explains that if Ash'ath chooses patience, he will be deserving of divine rewards, whereas if he reacts with despair, he will bear the burden of sin. This serves as a moral lesson that one’s response to fate can either lead to spiritual elevation or to spiritual decline. It underscores the futility of resisting divine decree, as it will occur regardless of human reaction.

Moreover, Imam Ali (a.s.) points out the paradox of the situation: the son, who was a source of joy, has now become a trial, yet his death is also a means of earning Allah's mercy and reward. This wisdom teaches that within every trial lies an opportunity for growth and spiritual reward, and it encourages believers to seek solace in faith during difficult times. The essence of this teaching is a reminder to always seek Allah's pleasure, even amidst sorrow.